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All or Nothing Leads to Nothing
Your perfectionist brain is sabotaging your progress. That voice telling you to crush a two-hour gym session or don't bother showing up at all? It's lying to you.
Why All-or-Nothing Thinking Destroys Progress
When you demand perfection, you set yourself up for failure. The math is simple:
Perfect gym session = 100% benefit
No gym session = 0% benefit
"Terrible" 15-minute workout = 25% benefit
Which would you rather have over a year: occasional 100% days followed by weeks of zeros, or consistent 25% days that compound?
Consistency Beats Intensity Every Time
I spent years trapped in the cycle:
Monday: Crush a 2-hour workout
Tuesday: Too sore to function
Wednesday through Sunday: "I'll restart next week"
Repeat until completely quitting
The breakthrough came when I embraced doing things badly.
The "Do It Badly" Framework
Lower the bar to the floor Make it impossibly easy to clear. Five minutes of reading. Ten squats.
Celebrate showing up The win isn't what you did, it's that you did anything at all.
Build the identity first "I'm a person who reads daily" matters more than how many pages.
Your Systems Beat Your Goals
The perfect workout plan you abandon is infinitely worse than the "terrible" routine you actually do three times a week.
I read more books when I stopped forcing myself to finish every one I started.
I got stronger when I accepted that some gym days would be garbage.
Consistency compounds. Perfection prevents.
Do it badly. Just do it anyway.